Mourning Bites: Donated Kibble Gives Meaning to Loss

Full Bellys Bus’s food program has been a lifesaver for many. photo: Full Belly Bus

Sandra’s little shadow, a scruffy eight-year-old dog named Thistle, died unexpectedly. In the days that followed, Sandra’s grief floated in and out in waves. Sometimes she wept for no apparent reason. Sometimes she’d grin from ear to ear while sobbing even harder, remembering something funny that rascal Thistle had done. 

Sandra's struggle to part with any of Thistle’s beloved toys, collars, or leashes weighed heavily on her. Even laundering them felt like a betrayal. She found herself clenching her fists and holding her breath in anger when well-meaning friends and family would say, “You gave Thistle a great life,” or tried to encourage her to start looking for another dog.

Every morning, when Sandra woke and started the coffee pot, she gazed at a newly opened 40-pound bag of dog food propped in the corner of her kitchen. She’d stare at Thistle’s bowl and remember how much her best friend loved her meals. 

One morning while still in her pajamas, Sandra swallowed hard and loaded the dog food into her car. She drove to San Francisco Animal Care and Control and, with tears in her eyes, donated Thistle’s food to Full Belly Bus’s free monthly pet food pantry. Sandra then emailed Full Belly Bus to say she would donate more of Thistle’s belongings when the time felt right. Next time, she promised to get dressed first. 

Mourning bites, and nothing can replace a beloved pet. But people like Sandra give meaning to their pet’s passing by donating their besties’ food and supplies to San Francisco pets in need. These generous gifts help keep other animals safe and fill the bellies of the hungry. It’s a fitting memorial to Thistle or any pet so dearly loved. 

Full Belly Bus and the animals we serve are forever grateful to Sandra and all those who reach beyond their grief to make this final act of kindness. Thank you to everyone who helps us feed our city’s pets in need. 

If you have unexpired, non-prescriptive dog or cat food and pet supplies to donate, please label items “Full Belly Bus” and drop them off at San Francisco Animal Care & Control, 1419 Bryant Street, Tuesday through Sunday between noon and 5 p.m. 

Paula Benton

Paula Benton is the founder and chief executive officer of the nonprofit Full Belly Bus. FBB’s mobile pet care team offers care without conditions and help without judgment to San Francisco pet owners working to prevent and end their homelessness.

https://fullbellybus.org/
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